Delter needs your help and so do I.If you don't know Delter, he's my partner and he showed up in a couple of my videos over the past.Both of us live in a different country.
Delter in Poland and me in France.Getting a job has been almost impossible and we're struggling to get a decent and stable income.
I would like Delter to be able to move out from his home because he's been facing serious issues with his family.To make things clear, he is the youngest sibling and was apparently never wanted, and the way he's been treated his entire childhood really shows.First off, Delter is practically never taken to the doctor when he's sick.
He has to beg in pain when he catches the flu for example, but no reaction comes from his parents.
He has to succumb every time he gets sick until he feels better.
Delter has never been taken to a proper dentist either, so I can only let you imagine how his teeth looks.
Anything related to his health is neglected.Unfortunately his health isn't the only thing that is neglected, and it's already pretty bad.
His hobbies and dreams are completely insignificant, and his sexuality is a crime in their eyes.
He's technically not allowed to talk to people online but most of the time he does it in secret.
He's constantly bothered to do chores, especially when they realize he's having a moment of fun on his computer.
I wish I was kidding but once his mom called him after he laughed too loud to pass the broom on the kitchen floor although there was absolutely nothing on it.The only friends Delter has are online, because his dad pretty much ruined all of his IRL friendships when he was younger, telling him they were a bad influence etc... and he wasn't spending enough time with his family. Now Delter is apparently spending too much time on his computer and should go out and socialize, although everything they've been doing is destroying all of that.Now, to feel "better" he should "help" them with chores around the house, and if he refuses they can take his computer and phone away from him.Delter tried to talk about his feelings to his mother so many times but she never listens, she will blame him with guilt then tell him things like "We should spend more time together" which involves doing chores with her while nobody else is barely doing anything.Now, I want to talk about a very important topic that is a major factor regarding Delter's vulnerability.This may trigger the sensitivity of some people, grooming/pedophilia.
When Delter was around 13 ~ 15 and his dad was constantly ruining his friendships, Delter turned towards the internet and, Roblox.
He made a couple of friends, some turned out to be good and some terrible, but then there was Adam.
I cannot write this without having tears coming out from my eyes but Adam turned out to be a pedophile and, manipulated Delter to full-fill his desires.Guilt-tripping, suicide threats, everything for him to send denuded pictures of himself.
Adam was around 20 years old, Delter was around 14 years old.Delter is now 21 years old and recently had the chance to talk to a therapist about his entire life. His situation with his family, what happened with Adam, his sexuality and the fact that he has me in his life.
The therapist took the matter very seriously, especially the grooming.They proposed Delter to have a discussion with the police and start an investigation. Delter wasn't so sure if he wanted that yet and since Adam lived in a complete different country at the time, nothing could be done against him.A mail was eventually sent from the police station at Delter's house, convoking him to discuss more about the grooming and if he wanted a case to be opened, but his mom had to stuck her nose into the letter destinated to Delter, before he even gets the chance to read it.
His entire house is now aware of what happened and they all pressured Delter to tell even more.
So, Delter told them he was seeing a therapist and discussed about his grooming.
You'd assume they would show some empathy but no, he pretty much got blamed from spending too much time on his computer and not enough time with his family. They never asked him how he felt, his mom just said "Why did you hide this from me?", Delter made her understand that he never felt listened and, she denied it. She proved Delter's point once again, and at the end she pretty much said: "we should hide your pc away so you spend more time helping us".
She seemed to have completely forgot about the grooming because she spent her time doing him wrong to clear her guilt.There is, so much more, that happened with his family but I don't know if it gets worse than this.Yes, Delter is 21 and technically an adult but he is also a kind and sensitive person who struggles to stand his ground or speak for himself and has been treated with fear his entire childhood. He also lives in a very isolated place and can barely go anywhere without any money.He needs to get out of Poland.As for me, I currently live with Shift as a roommate.
Thanks to your donations, I have been able to contribute in buying food and treat my dysphoria. My dysphoria is unfortunately a long and expensive process to go through and I don't know If I'll be able to cover it entirely without the necessary funds. YouTube has been my only source of revenue but it ain't enough and won't be enough. Please only donate if you can and if you aren't struggling with the same problematic. And don't feel guilty if you can't donate at all.
We're all dealing with misery in our lives and you probably deserve help too. We're just asking for help because at least we can still do that.All we want is to be together and figure out a way to live away from all of this.

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